I wrote a journal entry earlier about how my wife and I are struggling to divide our estate amongst our adult children in a way that is both fair and helpful and leaves everyone feeling equally loved. Because that's hard to convey in a legal document, we've decided to create a message for each of them, explaining our decisions and feelings on the matter so there'll be no room for regrets or hard feelings. We also have some household and personal effects to hand down and since they won't be listed in the will, we're going to include those in the video message that the executors will send to our children when we pass away. What do you think? Is anyone else doing something similar?